Some People don't want more..
That is a sobering realization when you see the potential someone has and you try to assist them in bringing it forward, but they can't understand where you're coming from. They are perfectly content in doing what they are doing and not looking for anything more. Your challenge is learning to accept this fact.
No matter what you may wish, beg or plead, for someone to pursue; if they don't have the ambition to want anything more, then nothing you say or do will change their mind. Your job is to encourage them in the place they are and to be the supportive friend, family or spouse. Don't make it your mission to try to change their mind through your eyes; however, offer subtle encouragements and ask suggestions of how they may approach a particular problem. Let them see for themselves that they possess more than their self-limiting thought pattern.
Provide kind words, gentle guidance and offerings of assistance if needed. Being that person who doesn't push beyond abilities, but one who helps guide past the comfort zone, is the best kind of support person they may need.
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